How To Survive Marriage Crisis In The Seventh Year

In the seventh year of marriage, married women usually complain that their husbands never treat them as tenderly and nicely as before they got married, and they say most married men are not committed and it is tired for them to dedicate their love to undeserving men who just cheat them. It is the same with men whose complaints are that their thoughtful girl friends have gone, replaced by cheeky bitches. And the vows of marriage turn out to be endless quarrels and fights. This phenomenon is called psychological weariness, which is a warning before marriage crisis and very common among couples married for seven years. How to solve this psychological weariness? Both the wife and the husband should make efforts to survive the marriage crisis

Exploring new excitement
First of all, having known each other for more than seven years, the couple should try experiencing something new and fresh to keep attraction to each other. Can you remember your first night being together? Do you still miss the excitement of the first sex with sexy lingerie? If both of you are tired with the present marriage and life, why not explore a new way to communicate with each other? You may try morning sex with sexy costume after being awake, or you may drive for pleasure at midnight. You can do anything you want to.

Enhancing emotional communication
Besides body communication, emotional communication is also very important, sometimes, just a compliment eye, a smile and a sweet word are better than any gift for each other. Those eye, smile and word will bring to comfort and enjoyment each other. For example, if you find your wife is doing the laundry alone, you can come to lend a hand; if you find your husband is busy with paper work, you can bring him a cup of hot tea; you can gently greet each other when you are going to work and off work. All of such details help to enhance emotional feelings.

Leaving certain private space to each other
Marriage is the combination of life and feelings but not individual body. It creates soul mate instead of body mate. If you excessively confine your wifes or husbands work or life, or limit each others freedom, you may start the misunderstanding and mistrust, which will even results in fights in the end. On the contrary, keeping appropriate space from each other can increase freshness.

Increasing sense of humor
Since life is not easy for every family nowadays, sometimes physical and psychological burdens may be exploded in the family and become the origins of fight between the couple. Smart humor usually can ease such burdens and solve family conflicts. Moreover, humor is the symbol of wisdom and willpower, which will never make people feel tired.